acabo de leer un mail y esta era la ultima cita!!!
”When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them, and when the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they work for, that, my dear friend, is the beginning of the end of any nation.”
demasiado gato!!!!
martes 10 de noviembre de 2009
En boga!
Hoy me quede pensando en las cosas que pasan de moda.... Las franelas, andar un cadena colgada del pantalon, los pantalones anchos, andar siempre camisa negra, bueno en fin, esa es la idea!
pero no me enfoque en el cambio de moda si no en las cosas en si que dejamos olvidadas porque "...Mae eso ya paso de moda..."
otra cosa en la que pienso son esas cosas que guardamos para cuando las necesitemos mas adelante y pasa y pasa el tiempo y llega un dia donde nos estorban todos esos chunches y botamos un par de tiliches que ya decidimos que no vamos a usar!
pues ese es el tema de hoy, han pensado en como se siente esa cosa que solo apreciamos cuando la ocupabamos? entonces es cuando pienso que talvez para eso estamos todos aqui, para ser el salvatandas de alguien o el comodin!
o sea si vuelve a ser cool andar con anteojos Rayban salimos corriendo a buscar nuestros anteojos vintage que ahora son la ultima chupada del mango! y nos salvamos de que los anteojos no tienen memoria o recoleccion de los hechos, de cuando dijimos "...osea mae! que son esos anteojos de Poncharelo?.." AJA CABRON! ahora si que cool andar como en los 80's verdad!
pues aparentemente a todo perro le llega su dia! y creo que ya me di cuenta que pasé de moda, y ahora hay cosas mas chuzas para andar! pues sinceramente entendi como era la vara y para el futuro ya me puse las pilas!
OJO! AL LEER ESTO NO HAGA UN EXAMEN MENTAL DE COMO HA O NO CAMBIADO SU ACTITUD HACIA MI!
pues si... voy a hacer una prueba y estoy seguro de que tengo razon y es mas, voy a postear eventualmente para que conozcan los resultados de mi experimento!
Para la proxima, cuando vaya a desechar esa camisa: 1. Piense en que esa camisa la puede usar alguien mas 2. Esa camisa le hizo ver bien en muchisimas ocasiones!
pero ojo! Al tonto ni Dios lo quiere! si lo que no sirve se bota, APRENDA, ADAPTESE, SIGA ADELANTE! mil veces van a querer sacarle provecho en esta vida y los que lo hacen hoy no son mas que gente a la que usted le debe un agradecimiento! dele gracias por haberle enseñado a identificarlos!
lo mas aguevado del caso es que es solo culpa mia por haber aguantado!
over and out!
pero no me enfoque en el cambio de moda si no en las cosas en si que dejamos olvidadas porque "...Mae eso ya paso de moda..."
otra cosa en la que pienso son esas cosas que guardamos para cuando las necesitemos mas adelante y pasa y pasa el tiempo y llega un dia donde nos estorban todos esos chunches y botamos un par de tiliches que ya decidimos que no vamos a usar!
pues ese es el tema de hoy, han pensado en como se siente esa cosa que solo apreciamos cuando la ocupabamos? entonces es cuando pienso que talvez para eso estamos todos aqui, para ser el salvatandas de alguien o el comodin!
o sea si vuelve a ser cool andar con anteojos Rayban salimos corriendo a buscar nuestros anteojos vintage que ahora son la ultima chupada del mango! y nos salvamos de que los anteojos no tienen memoria o recoleccion de los hechos, de cuando dijimos "...osea mae! que son esos anteojos de Poncharelo?.." AJA CABRON! ahora si que cool andar como en los 80's verdad!
pues aparentemente a todo perro le llega su dia! y creo que ya me di cuenta que pasé de moda, y ahora hay cosas mas chuzas para andar! pues sinceramente entendi como era la vara y para el futuro ya me puse las pilas!
OJO! AL LEER ESTO NO HAGA UN EXAMEN MENTAL DE COMO HA O NO CAMBIADO SU ACTITUD HACIA MI!
pues si... voy a hacer una prueba y estoy seguro de que tengo razon y es mas, voy a postear eventualmente para que conozcan los resultados de mi experimento!
Para la proxima, cuando vaya a desechar esa camisa: 1. Piense en que esa camisa la puede usar alguien mas 2. Esa camisa le hizo ver bien en muchisimas ocasiones!
pero ojo! Al tonto ni Dios lo quiere! si lo que no sirve se bota, APRENDA, ADAPTESE, SIGA ADELANTE! mil veces van a querer sacarle provecho en esta vida y los que lo hacen hoy no son mas que gente a la que usted le debe un agradecimiento! dele gracias por haberle enseñado a identificarlos!
lo mas aguevado del caso es que es solo culpa mia por haber aguantado!
over and out!
lunes 19 de octubre de 2009
Vamos Vamos!!
Es falta de confianza, por que conformarse dn dejar todo en papel?
Quin dijo que yo no soy "worthy" de lograrlo?? NADIE!!!!!!
Que hijueputa yo soy quien pone mis propjos limites y todavia no me doy cuenta?!??!? Que estoy viendo???
Creo que se a acabo!
"..tu me hiciste brujeria?..." BULLSHIT! imposible!! eso no existe! Ahora si!
Se acabo la cosa de... de... NO TENGO EXCUSA!!!!
Para adelante!!! QUITATE QUE VOY!!
Uff! Sentirse vivo es mas motivacion que cualquier cosa!
Quin dijo que yo no soy "worthy" de lograrlo?? NADIE!!!!!!
Que hijueputa yo soy quien pone mis propjos limites y todavia no me doy cuenta?!??!? Que estoy viendo???
Creo que se a acabo!
"..tu me hiciste brujeria?..." BULLSHIT! imposible!! eso no existe! Ahora si!
Se acabo la cosa de... de... NO TENGO EXCUSA!!!!
Para adelante!!! QUITATE QUE VOY!!
Uff! Sentirse vivo es mas motivacion que cualquier cosa!
miércoles 7 de octubre de 2009
AHORA SI! Llego el manual detallado de Bernie
Hoy en la noche hablando sobre casamenteras y temas afines hablamos de jdate.com y yo traje a flote otra pagina que vi en tele que se llama eHarmony.com
pues me deje llevar y complete el cuestionario(LARGUISIMO pero vale la pena)
y cuando lo termine me salio como un resultado de mi personalidad.
si alguien quiere entenderme LEA ESTO solo no le haga caso a la parte emocional que eso si esta MFT pero echenle un ojo y si tienen paciencia saquen el tiempo y hagan el cuestionario y lean los resultados! ESPECTACULAR!
ahora si
a lo que vinimos
You are best described as:
USUALLY TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF
Words that describe you:
Perceptive
Realistic
Demanding
Down-to-Earth
Hardnosed
Judgmental
Pragmatic
Skeptical
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
You are clearly a compassionate person; you believe that you should do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and you know that friends help their friends. But with you compassion is just one side of the coin; the other being a side that also expects others to hold up their end of the bargain. So you help others but it is with the expectation that others don't take advantage of you or try to put one over on you. In short, you expect others to treat you as you treat them.And for those people who do ask for help when they should have taken responsibility for themselves? This is the time when your more hard-edged side comes out. You are skeptical of people when they expect others to bail them out of trouble; if they got themselves into the bind, they should work their way out of the trouble. If it's an emergency, or if it's a friend who has been there for you when you have had hard times, you are there in a quick minute. But you are a discerning person and to you there is a big difference between an emergency and a self-inflicted wound. You just look at the facts: how the situation developed, how serious the situation, and how they can or cannot get through things on their own. The history you have with the person and with similar situations will inform you whether this is or is not a time for you to get involved. You also have some limits when it comes to being with people. Sure some people need to be with others all the time and seem to get recharged by helping out most anyone else. But that's not you. You know that you do best if you spend a fair amount of time on your own. Not that you are a loner, just that time spent by yourself is not wasted at all with you. You've come to understand that if you don't take good care of yourself, eventually you'll be not good to anyone, including yourself or others. So your compassion is tempered by realism. Your sympathy for people in trouble is balanced by a critical evaluation of how they got themselves to the place they are. And you've learned to take good care of yourself, so you have something to give to your friends or others truly in need.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Some people may see your practical style as lacking compassion. When your compassion is tempered, as it is at times by your discerning questions and careful consideration, it may seem to some like you have too much head and too little heart. And when you use time and energy to take care of yourself there will inevitably be some who see you as selfish and uncaring. But your approach is neither heady nor selfish. It is you. And unless your approach is causing you consistent problems in important relationships, there is really no reason to change. Your distinctive manner of having clear expectations for the relationships in which you will exert your energy is true to the core of you.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
The truth is that most people respect someone who knows themselves and what they want. So even if some people don't get exactly what they want from you often they will leave with a deeper respect for you. Your frank and honest approach may help someone to help themselves when they didn't think this was possible, and they wind up better off: they're out of trouble, they did it on their own, and they have you to thank. And you were, again, true to yourself.
On the Openness Dimension you are:
SOMETIMES CURIOUS, SOMETIMES CONTENT
Words that describe you:
Accepting
Flexible
Educated
Self-aware
Middle-of-the-road
Proper
Distinctive
Indecisive
Adaptable
A General Description of How You Approach New Information and Experiences
Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, you are equally at home with ideas and beliefs that you have held for a long time and with new ways of thinking and believing that grow out of your intellectual curiosity. Your sense of who you are and what your place is in the world around you rests on values and principles that are the solid ground you walk upon. You've tested them, they work for you, and much of the time you are content to trust them, that is, until some provocative new idea slips in from a conversation, book or some flight of your active imagination. "Hmmmm. What's this. Never thought of it before." And off you go, exploring. Since you love to learn, you've always been teachable; you absorb new information, which means you are well-educated in things that matter to you. Sometimes your intellectual exploring will lead you back to where you started; the "next new thing" proves too shallow or impractical to you. But once in a while a new idea or belief will dislodge you from the ground you've stood upon; it is so compelling and persuasive that you step away from the tried-and-true and embrace this notion that is brand new to you. Because you hold both solid beliefs and are open to new ideas, you are accepting of other people and other ways of thinking and believing. You are flexible enough to listen to something new and different, or something outside of your comfort zone; if it works for you, you'll take it in, and if not, you'll let it go. In this sense, you know who you are: you are neither closed-minded nor wildly open-minded, but walk somewhere near the middle of the intellectual road.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward Your Style of Thinking
Not everyone will be thrilled by your flexible, middle-of-the-road ways of thinking and believing. A few people are so taken with flights of imagination into whatever is new that they might find your commitment to long-standing values and beliefs too confining, if not too boring. Oh well; so be it. They'll just have to be in free-flight without you. Others are content with the ideas that have served them and their culture well; they're not excited by the prospect of moving on. And some people are afraid of new ways of thinking because they are somewhat fragile; they have trouble maintaining their current worlds and don't want someone like you, for instance pushing out the edges of their intellectual cosmos. So don't be surprised if your solid values sometimes make people distrust you as an explorer, or if your flexible and open mind sometimes gets you criticized by people who walk away from the very same explorations that you find refreshing.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many others will find you trustworthy and therefore an attractive companion on the intellectual journey. They will appreciate the combination in you of open-mindedness and a commitment to the tried-and-true. In an intellectual climate sometimes dominated by the extremes of either wild innovation or dug-in traditionalism, your moderate views and your proper acceptance of a wide range of possibilities will be a distinctive and refreshing quality. Because you join your curiosity to strong foundational ideas and beliefs and practical solutions to problems, people will trust your occasional explorations into new territories to be reliable, and not "something new for newness sake". You are accepting of others, flexible in your own intellectual commitments, well-informed in areas that matter to you, and comfortably aware of who you are and where you stand. This combination will make you a desirable companion on the intellectual journey for many, many people.
On Emotional Stability you are:
RESPONSIVE
Words that describe you:
Open
Accessible
Too Sensitive
Reachable
Candid
Unguarded
A General Description of Your Reactivity
You are an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and you more powerfully than most. Your emotions are closer to the surface, and your feelings more obvious to you than is the case with most people. You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with your emotions brings you.Sure there are times when your feelings come very close to the surface, and life becomes more complicated. At these times you may grow self-conscious, or feel a bit anxious. But all in all, you much prefer being open with your emotions, breathing in all that life offers, than shutting down any part of your emotional experience. Granted, there may be times when these emotions are hard but you realize that is part of life. And more often than not you feel enriched by your emotions, by your ability to be open to all that life brings you. You know that even when you have those times that get you down, there will be even more times when you see life in ways that others just can't.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Undoubtedly you have met some people who get uncomfortable being around you because your feelings are so close to the surface. They may keep a bit of distance, especially around any subject that might trigger an emotional topic they are uncomfortable with. Over time, they might even stay away from you more and more. You will find you have decisions to make; do you temper your style for their comfort or do you hope they will find ways to become more comfortable with emotional expressions? Given the richness that seems to stem from your emotional life the most meaningful response is probably very apparent to you.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
You are a cherished companion for those friends who can handle emotions well. They will appreciate the candor with which you express even difficult feelings like anger and fear. Your openness will make intimate conversations even more intimate, and make the connections between you as friends deeper and stronger. Some people who have trouble expressing their feelings might find in you a good example of how to be more vulnerable and more open. Your willingness and ability to share your emotions could encourage them to share theirs, and invite them into ways of being friends that will help enrich their lives.
Your approach toward your obligations is:
FLEXIBLE
Words that describe you:
Spontaneous
Intuitive
Perceptive
Natural
Somewhat Disorganized
Unpredictable At Times
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
When there's a job to be done, like most people you want to know what the goal is and when it's to be completed. For you, that's a start. Next you want to know what the plan is to get to the goal. So you lay out a plan, or at least the major points of a plan: "Organize the kitchen sometime this spring" or "Get the project at work done as soon as possible." You don't need an in-depth specification of every little detail; in fact you prefer not to work that way. You lay out your goals, develop a general plan, and then you get things done. You believe in intuition as well as organization. As such, you trust impulses as much as strategies and you value spontaneity as much as you do efficiency. In a word, you like to keep it flexible. When you set out to accomplish a task, you prefer to have some room to maneuver. Like an artist, you find that the best way to reach a goal is not always in a straight line. Some of the most productive times for you are the unplanned moments of inspiration and creativity that just come to you. While you do keep to a general plan, those times of pure vision and originality are what really drive you. Some of the people who rely completely on an organized approach to getting things done may be surprised at your efficiency. But there is a definite method to your approach. With a creative flair that others may not have anticipated, the original plan gets met and there are often a few extra accomplishments along the way. Your comfort zone starts with a task and a plan but it also requires the freedom to be able to go with your instincts and impulses so that you can not just accomplish the task, you also have the option to explore something brand new along the way.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
People may have problems with your style for two reasons. First, you don't always follow the rules or go along with detailed plans, whether at work or at home. Those who need the details to stay on task just don't quite understand how you are going to get it all done. Second, while you get things done - the way you veer off course at times and use your creativity may leave others wondering what went on. Some people find all this creativity and thinking "out-of-the-box" at odds with their desire to follow a clear course. And this causes not only some confusion it may also spark some anger toward you at times. Even you would likely admit that living and working with you takes someone who is able to let you do your thing at times. If someone is really tied to a rigid approach to how things should get done, there is clearly the potential for some conflict with you.Every workplace and home does need a modicum of reliability and a decent amount or order and organization if it is to accommodate the mix of people who work or live there. That leads to a serious question for you: Are there times when your creative, though at times unpredictable, style keeps others off balance? Are there some plans that should be sacred, some space always well organized, some charts left as designed? Are there are some things you could change that would allow those who live and work with you to feel more in control; changes that wouldn't impinge on your creative processes? If others are finding your style to be difficult to deal with you may want to consider how you can all work together most efficiently.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
The truth is that your work style gets things done, often with more beauty, fun, creativity and imagination than others could ever manage. But your style is very unique to you. Flexibility is essential to your style. With your creativity and flexibility the path you take to any goal can make everyone's accomplishments more inventive and enjoyable. Bringing some extra enjoyment to people's work can be a real asset; one you may want to use more consciously. Deep down inside there's also another truth you should consider. A lot of people wish they had some of whatever it is that you've got. They get so bogged down reading the committee notes or checking the project calendar that they seldom just cut loose and let their impulses run. They neglect their intuition to the point that it barely whispers - that is, until you come along with yours shouting out loud and remind everyone in the room that there's something to listen to besides the original plan and the orderly, organized path laid out to get there. So not only do you enhance the accomplishments of the group, you also enhance the lives of each member willing to find in themselves the spontaneity that is your trademark personal characteristic.
Introduction to Extraversion
Some days you want to hang out by yourself, not answer the phone, and make the world go away. The next day you e-mail everyone, schedule lunch with a friend, and try to find an evening gathering to take part in. It may be the phases of the moon, or something you ate; some days are just like that. In actuality, your desire to be with others or to be alone reflects something deep in your personality. Some of us are more comfortable by ourselves or with one or two friends, while others of us crave the crowd and can't stand it when the house is empty or the phone doesn't ring. The following paragraphs describe your fundamental desires about being with other people; whether you are generally an outgoing person or more reserved, if you seek adventures with others, if you tend toward assertiveness or kindness.
When it comes to Extraversion you are:
OUTGOING
Words that describe you:
Friendly
Gregarious
Full of Life
Unreserved
Kindhearted
Talkative
Emotional
Spontaneous
Vigorous
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
People light you up. In conversations, planning meetings or almost any social situation, you bring your energy and your friendly, outgoing personality into these engagements with other people, and you come away pumped up. You can hardly wait for the next event, as long as other people will be there. And you're good at it. You know how to communicate. You listen well, the first rule of good communication, and then, when it's your turn, you talk vigorously and with animation; in your uninhibited way you give all that you've got to the encounter. In situations where you feel very safe, when you know and trust the people you're with, you can be very kindhearted and unrestrained. You let your affection for and pleasure in being with others flow freely. You're wide open And when you get back this same kind of unrestrained warmth, you are deeply satisfied. Because you are so friendly and full of life, these are among your favorite moments.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
As much as you like being with other people, not everyone will like being with you. Hard to believe, but your gregarious and warm manner is not everyone's cup of tea. Some people are more cautious than you in personal encounters; others think the work place should be more formal, more impersonal than is comfortable for you. Still others, who may want more of the spotlight, will find you too much to compete with once you get your lively and outgoing self in motion. Here's another word of caution. You've been at this warm and open way of relating for a while, but for some people it's a brand new experience. They may be protecting something inside themselves, some fear or guilt or shame, or some private part of their story that they're not yet ready to share. Your openness might threaten them, and they'll take a step back and be reluctant the next time to engage you in the kind of exchange you find so easy and satisfying but they find so dangerous.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many people, most probably, will be glad to be in the room you're in. At work you make the environment livelier and the banter more interesting, so the time moves swiftly and the experience is a happier one. At home you keep everyone connected because you engage each of them in the conversational action, and as a result they are more connected as well with one another. You make home a warmer and more interesting place for everyone who lives there. You might also be helpful to some people. There are those who need to talk but aren't very good at it. They don't know how to begin the kind of conversation that would allow them to share whatever is in their personal stories that they'd like or need to talk about. You could make that easier for them with your way with words. Some people just need an example and a little encouragement to come out of their shell and get into the greater fun and personal connectedness that will make their lives so much more satisfying. Again, you might be just the right person to make that happen for them. So almost everyone will be glad to be with you, you make life more interesting for those you live and work with, and you could help some of your friends who need just a little encouragement to open up and find in themselves the kinds of energetic and warm connections that you thrive on. Not that you are a pushover; in fact, you are often quite assertive. In taking care of yourself you also make sure that others are engaged and energized.
gracias
pues me deje llevar y complete el cuestionario(LARGUISIMO pero vale la pena)
y cuando lo termine me salio como un resultado de mi personalidad.
si alguien quiere entenderme LEA ESTO solo no le haga caso a la parte emocional que eso si esta MFT pero echenle un ojo y si tienen paciencia saquen el tiempo y hagan el cuestionario y lean los resultados! ESPECTACULAR!
ahora si
a lo que vinimos
You are best described as:
USUALLY TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF
Words that describe you:
Perceptive
Realistic
Demanding
Down-to-Earth
Hardnosed
Judgmental
Pragmatic
Skeptical
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
You are clearly a compassionate person; you believe that you should do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and you know that friends help their friends. But with you compassion is just one side of the coin; the other being a side that also expects others to hold up their end of the bargain. So you help others but it is with the expectation that others don't take advantage of you or try to put one over on you. In short, you expect others to treat you as you treat them.And for those people who do ask for help when they should have taken responsibility for themselves? This is the time when your more hard-edged side comes out. You are skeptical of people when they expect others to bail them out of trouble; if they got themselves into the bind, they should work their way out of the trouble. If it's an emergency, or if it's a friend who has been there for you when you have had hard times, you are there in a quick minute. But you are a discerning person and to you there is a big difference between an emergency and a self-inflicted wound. You just look at the facts: how the situation developed, how serious the situation, and how they can or cannot get through things on their own. The history you have with the person and with similar situations will inform you whether this is or is not a time for you to get involved. You also have some limits when it comes to being with people. Sure some people need to be with others all the time and seem to get recharged by helping out most anyone else. But that's not you. You know that you do best if you spend a fair amount of time on your own. Not that you are a loner, just that time spent by yourself is not wasted at all with you. You've come to understand that if you don't take good care of yourself, eventually you'll be not good to anyone, including yourself or others. So your compassion is tempered by realism. Your sympathy for people in trouble is balanced by a critical evaluation of how they got themselves to the place they are. And you've learned to take good care of yourself, so you have something to give to your friends or others truly in need.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Some people may see your practical style as lacking compassion. When your compassion is tempered, as it is at times by your discerning questions and careful consideration, it may seem to some like you have too much head and too little heart. And when you use time and energy to take care of yourself there will inevitably be some who see you as selfish and uncaring. But your approach is neither heady nor selfish. It is you. And unless your approach is causing you consistent problems in important relationships, there is really no reason to change. Your distinctive manner of having clear expectations for the relationships in which you will exert your energy is true to the core of you.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
The truth is that most people respect someone who knows themselves and what they want. So even if some people don't get exactly what they want from you often they will leave with a deeper respect for you. Your frank and honest approach may help someone to help themselves when they didn't think this was possible, and they wind up better off: they're out of trouble, they did it on their own, and they have you to thank. And you were, again, true to yourself.
On the Openness Dimension you are:
SOMETIMES CURIOUS, SOMETIMES CONTENT
Words that describe you:
Accepting
Flexible
Educated
Self-aware
Middle-of-the-road
Proper
Distinctive
Indecisive
Adaptable
A General Description of How You Approach New Information and Experiences
Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, you are equally at home with ideas and beliefs that you have held for a long time and with new ways of thinking and believing that grow out of your intellectual curiosity. Your sense of who you are and what your place is in the world around you rests on values and principles that are the solid ground you walk upon. You've tested them, they work for you, and much of the time you are content to trust them, that is, until some provocative new idea slips in from a conversation, book or some flight of your active imagination. "Hmmmm. What's this. Never thought of it before." And off you go, exploring. Since you love to learn, you've always been teachable; you absorb new information, which means you are well-educated in things that matter to you. Sometimes your intellectual exploring will lead you back to where you started; the "next new thing" proves too shallow or impractical to you. But once in a while a new idea or belief will dislodge you from the ground you've stood upon; it is so compelling and persuasive that you step away from the tried-and-true and embrace this notion that is brand new to you. Because you hold both solid beliefs and are open to new ideas, you are accepting of other people and other ways of thinking and believing. You are flexible enough to listen to something new and different, or something outside of your comfort zone; if it works for you, you'll take it in, and if not, you'll let it go. In this sense, you know who you are: you are neither closed-minded nor wildly open-minded, but walk somewhere near the middle of the intellectual road.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward Your Style of Thinking
Not everyone will be thrilled by your flexible, middle-of-the-road ways of thinking and believing. A few people are so taken with flights of imagination into whatever is new that they might find your commitment to long-standing values and beliefs too confining, if not too boring. Oh well; so be it. They'll just have to be in free-flight without you. Others are content with the ideas that have served them and their culture well; they're not excited by the prospect of moving on. And some people are afraid of new ways of thinking because they are somewhat fragile; they have trouble maintaining their current worlds and don't want someone like you, for instance pushing out the edges of their intellectual cosmos. So don't be surprised if your solid values sometimes make people distrust you as an explorer, or if your flexible and open mind sometimes gets you criticized by people who walk away from the very same explorations that you find refreshing.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many others will find you trustworthy and therefore an attractive companion on the intellectual journey. They will appreciate the combination in you of open-mindedness and a commitment to the tried-and-true. In an intellectual climate sometimes dominated by the extremes of either wild innovation or dug-in traditionalism, your moderate views and your proper acceptance of a wide range of possibilities will be a distinctive and refreshing quality. Because you join your curiosity to strong foundational ideas and beliefs and practical solutions to problems, people will trust your occasional explorations into new territories to be reliable, and not "something new for newness sake". You are accepting of others, flexible in your own intellectual commitments, well-informed in areas that matter to you, and comfortably aware of who you are and where you stand. This combination will make you a desirable companion on the intellectual journey for many, many people.
On Emotional Stability you are:
RESPONSIVE
Words that describe you:
Open
Accessible
Too Sensitive
Reachable
Candid
Unguarded
A General Description of Your Reactivity
You are an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and you more powerfully than most. Your emotions are closer to the surface, and your feelings more obvious to you than is the case with most people. You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with your emotions brings you.Sure there are times when your feelings come very close to the surface, and life becomes more complicated. At these times you may grow self-conscious, or feel a bit anxious. But all in all, you much prefer being open with your emotions, breathing in all that life offers, than shutting down any part of your emotional experience. Granted, there may be times when these emotions are hard but you realize that is part of life. And more often than not you feel enriched by your emotions, by your ability to be open to all that life brings you. You know that even when you have those times that get you down, there will be even more times when you see life in ways that others just can't.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Undoubtedly you have met some people who get uncomfortable being around you because your feelings are so close to the surface. They may keep a bit of distance, especially around any subject that might trigger an emotional topic they are uncomfortable with. Over time, they might even stay away from you more and more. You will find you have decisions to make; do you temper your style for their comfort or do you hope they will find ways to become more comfortable with emotional expressions? Given the richness that seems to stem from your emotional life the most meaningful response is probably very apparent to you.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
You are a cherished companion for those friends who can handle emotions well. They will appreciate the candor with which you express even difficult feelings like anger and fear. Your openness will make intimate conversations even more intimate, and make the connections between you as friends deeper and stronger. Some people who have trouble expressing their feelings might find in you a good example of how to be more vulnerable and more open. Your willingness and ability to share your emotions could encourage them to share theirs, and invite them into ways of being friends that will help enrich their lives.
Your approach toward your obligations is:
FLEXIBLE
Words that describe you:
Spontaneous
Intuitive
Perceptive
Natural
Somewhat Disorganized
Unpredictable At Times
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
When there's a job to be done, like most people you want to know what the goal is and when it's to be completed. For you, that's a start. Next you want to know what the plan is to get to the goal. So you lay out a plan, or at least the major points of a plan: "Organize the kitchen sometime this spring" or "Get the project at work done as soon as possible." You don't need an in-depth specification of every little detail; in fact you prefer not to work that way. You lay out your goals, develop a general plan, and then you get things done. You believe in intuition as well as organization. As such, you trust impulses as much as strategies and you value spontaneity as much as you do efficiency. In a word, you like to keep it flexible. When you set out to accomplish a task, you prefer to have some room to maneuver. Like an artist, you find that the best way to reach a goal is not always in a straight line. Some of the most productive times for you are the unplanned moments of inspiration and creativity that just come to you. While you do keep to a general plan, those times of pure vision and originality are what really drive you. Some of the people who rely completely on an organized approach to getting things done may be surprised at your efficiency. But there is a definite method to your approach. With a creative flair that others may not have anticipated, the original plan gets met and there are often a few extra accomplishments along the way. Your comfort zone starts with a task and a plan but it also requires the freedom to be able to go with your instincts and impulses so that you can not just accomplish the task, you also have the option to explore something brand new along the way.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
People may have problems with your style for two reasons. First, you don't always follow the rules or go along with detailed plans, whether at work or at home. Those who need the details to stay on task just don't quite understand how you are going to get it all done. Second, while you get things done - the way you veer off course at times and use your creativity may leave others wondering what went on. Some people find all this creativity and thinking "out-of-the-box" at odds with their desire to follow a clear course. And this causes not only some confusion it may also spark some anger toward you at times. Even you would likely admit that living and working with you takes someone who is able to let you do your thing at times. If someone is really tied to a rigid approach to how things should get done, there is clearly the potential for some conflict with you.Every workplace and home does need a modicum of reliability and a decent amount or order and organization if it is to accommodate the mix of people who work or live there. That leads to a serious question for you: Are there times when your creative, though at times unpredictable, style keeps others off balance? Are there some plans that should be sacred, some space always well organized, some charts left as designed? Are there are some things you could change that would allow those who live and work with you to feel more in control; changes that wouldn't impinge on your creative processes? If others are finding your style to be difficult to deal with you may want to consider how you can all work together most efficiently.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
The truth is that your work style gets things done, often with more beauty, fun, creativity and imagination than others could ever manage. But your style is very unique to you. Flexibility is essential to your style. With your creativity and flexibility the path you take to any goal can make everyone's accomplishments more inventive and enjoyable. Bringing some extra enjoyment to people's work can be a real asset; one you may want to use more consciously. Deep down inside there's also another truth you should consider. A lot of people wish they had some of whatever it is that you've got. They get so bogged down reading the committee notes or checking the project calendar that they seldom just cut loose and let their impulses run. They neglect their intuition to the point that it barely whispers - that is, until you come along with yours shouting out loud and remind everyone in the room that there's something to listen to besides the original plan and the orderly, organized path laid out to get there. So not only do you enhance the accomplishments of the group, you also enhance the lives of each member willing to find in themselves the spontaneity that is your trademark personal characteristic.
Introduction to Extraversion
Some days you want to hang out by yourself, not answer the phone, and make the world go away. The next day you e-mail everyone, schedule lunch with a friend, and try to find an evening gathering to take part in. It may be the phases of the moon, or something you ate; some days are just like that. In actuality, your desire to be with others or to be alone reflects something deep in your personality. Some of us are more comfortable by ourselves or with one or two friends, while others of us crave the crowd and can't stand it when the house is empty or the phone doesn't ring. The following paragraphs describe your fundamental desires about being with other people; whether you are generally an outgoing person or more reserved, if you seek adventures with others, if you tend toward assertiveness or kindness.
When it comes to Extraversion you are:
OUTGOING
Words that describe you:
Friendly
Gregarious
Full of Life
Unreserved
Kindhearted
Talkative
Emotional
Spontaneous
Vigorous
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
People light you up. In conversations, planning meetings or almost any social situation, you bring your energy and your friendly, outgoing personality into these engagements with other people, and you come away pumped up. You can hardly wait for the next event, as long as other people will be there. And you're good at it. You know how to communicate. You listen well, the first rule of good communication, and then, when it's your turn, you talk vigorously and with animation; in your uninhibited way you give all that you've got to the encounter. In situations where you feel very safe, when you know and trust the people you're with, you can be very kindhearted and unrestrained. You let your affection for and pleasure in being with others flow freely. You're wide open And when you get back this same kind of unrestrained warmth, you are deeply satisfied. Because you are so friendly and full of life, these are among your favorite moments.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
As much as you like being with other people, not everyone will like being with you. Hard to believe, but your gregarious and warm manner is not everyone's cup of tea. Some people are more cautious than you in personal encounters; others think the work place should be more formal, more impersonal than is comfortable for you. Still others, who may want more of the spotlight, will find you too much to compete with once you get your lively and outgoing self in motion. Here's another word of caution. You've been at this warm and open way of relating for a while, but for some people it's a brand new experience. They may be protecting something inside themselves, some fear or guilt or shame, or some private part of their story that they're not yet ready to share. Your openness might threaten them, and they'll take a step back and be reluctant the next time to engage you in the kind of exchange you find so easy and satisfying but they find so dangerous.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many people, most probably, will be glad to be in the room you're in. At work you make the environment livelier and the banter more interesting, so the time moves swiftly and the experience is a happier one. At home you keep everyone connected because you engage each of them in the conversational action, and as a result they are more connected as well with one another. You make home a warmer and more interesting place for everyone who lives there. You might also be helpful to some people. There are those who need to talk but aren't very good at it. They don't know how to begin the kind of conversation that would allow them to share whatever is in their personal stories that they'd like or need to talk about. You could make that easier for them with your way with words. Some people just need an example and a little encouragement to come out of their shell and get into the greater fun and personal connectedness that will make their lives so much more satisfying. Again, you might be just the right person to make that happen for them. So almost everyone will be glad to be with you, you make life more interesting for those you live and work with, and you could help some of your friends who need just a little encouragement to open up and find in themselves the kinds of energetic and warm connections that you thrive on. Not that you are a pushover; in fact, you are often quite assertive. In taking care of yourself you also make sure that others are engaged and energized.
gracias
domingo 20 de septiembre de 2009
Sufrimiento = placer
Que extraño! Terminando el dia lo unico que pasa por mi cabeza tengo es Felicidad, contentera y satisfaccion plena, por supuesto hay un poco de remordimiento pero prefiero no pensar en eso po que si no, no me sentiria como me siento!
Hoy fue uno de esos dias tipo hace 2 años! SI! LO DIGO EN PUBLICO! me andaba portando mal!!!!!(no tan mal tampoco) Mil disculpas a todos pero hoy me toco vivir para MI y no para nadie mas!! Hoy me senti mejor de lo que me sentia hacia DEMASIADO tiempo! Y si no hubiera sido por mi compromiso del almuerzo no habria habido absolutamente nada que me estresara hoy!
Hoy pase un par de momentos de angustia, 2 o 3 sustos y n momentos de cansancio y dolor fisico! Pero NO IMPORTA! cuando llegue a mi casa hecho una completa caca no podia (igual que ahora) quitarme esta sonrisa de la cara!
Como dijo Evolucion en su cancion Chismologos, "...solo Soy un hombre libre porque sli de esa prision y usted aun esta adentro, espero que pueda salir..."
Hoy despues de mucho tiempo fui FELIZ!! Y lastimosamente mi infelicidad hace feliz a otra gente y viceversa!
Pero si hoy yo sufri para tener placer, creo que todos( y no crean que me vale verg@ lo que sufrieron) van a tener que sufrir(hacerse de la idea que esto es lo que voy a seguir haciendo) porque estoy decidio a tener el placer de disfrutar mi vida!
Hoy fue uno de esos dias tipo hace 2 años! SI! LO DIGO EN PUBLICO! me andaba portando mal!!!!!(no tan mal tampoco) Mil disculpas a todos pero hoy me toco vivir para MI y no para nadie mas!! Hoy me senti mejor de lo que me sentia hacia DEMASIADO tiempo! Y si no hubiera sido por mi compromiso del almuerzo no habria habido absolutamente nada que me estresara hoy!
Hoy pase un par de momentos de angustia, 2 o 3 sustos y n momentos de cansancio y dolor fisico! Pero NO IMPORTA! cuando llegue a mi casa hecho una completa caca no podia (igual que ahora) quitarme esta sonrisa de la cara!
Como dijo Evolucion en su cancion Chismologos, "...solo Soy un hombre libre porque sli de esa prision y usted aun esta adentro, espero que pueda salir..."
Hoy despues de mucho tiempo fui FELIZ!! Y lastimosamente mi infelicidad hace feliz a otra gente y viceversa!
Pero si hoy yo sufri para tener placer, creo que todos( y no crean que me vale verg@ lo que sufrieron) van a tener que sufrir(hacerse de la idea que esto es lo que voy a seguir haciendo) porque estoy decidio a tener el placer de disfrutar mi vida!
viernes 18 de septiembre de 2009
La idealizacion de una meta
Muy naturalmente talvez por incertidumbre o por inseguridad idealizamos nuestras metas, al decir esto no me refiero a que esta mal poner en un pedestal nuestros anhelos pero en mi caso me resulta lo siguiente:
Me propongo una meta, le doy tiempo de cabeza y en este proceso esa meta toma un matiz de inalcanzable. Aqui es donde siento que se aleja de mi y se convierte en algo tremendamente dificil de alcanzar. Continuo trabajando en conseguir mi cometido y una vez que lo consigo me doy cuenta que no era la gran cosa.
Será que estoy esperando demasiada retribucion de metas muy poco retadoras? o que estoy desconfiando de mi propia capacidad?
lo que si es cierto es que siento que debo aprender a confiar en mi capacidad, a medir mis retos(y conseguirlos mas dificiles) y a apreciar mas mis logros!
Me propongo una meta, le doy tiempo de cabeza y en este proceso esa meta toma un matiz de inalcanzable. Aqui es donde siento que se aleja de mi y se convierte en algo tremendamente dificil de alcanzar. Continuo trabajando en conseguir mi cometido y una vez que lo consigo me doy cuenta que no era la gran cosa.
Será que estoy esperando demasiada retribucion de metas muy poco retadoras? o que estoy desconfiando de mi propia capacidad?
lo que si es cierto es que siento que debo aprender a confiar en mi capacidad, a medir mis retos(y conseguirlos mas dificiles) y a apreciar mas mis logros!
jueves 6 de agosto de 2009
Ansiedad por separacion
Hoy en la manana para mi sorpresa encontre una orinadota de la perrita en la sala de la casa! que frustracion la verdad! yo pense que ya habiamos superado esa etapa y me hace como regresar y sentir que echamos para atras todo lo avanzado.
por supuesto como buen computin me siento a buscar en internet si a alguien le ha sucedido algo similar y me encuentro con algo que se llama Ansiedad por Separacion.
La perrita cuando yo la dejo sola se pone ansiosa y no quiere que yo la deje! aparentemente esto esta ansiedad se exacerba cuando siente stress de mi parte.
Sera que me conoce tanto o me comprende o es tan habil mi gordita que sabe o por lo menos siente el stress que me provoca mi situacion actual?
justo hoy! hoy que es el gran dia, o bueno, el dia que tanto he esperado... y talvez es para dejarme una enseñanza: Mi estado de animo afecta a la gente que tengo a mi alrededor sin que yo me de cuenta o que lo haga consientemente!
Y por otro lado, sera tan importante estresarme por cosas que realmente no controlo?
gracias a mi gorda me doy cuenta de la imagen que le estoy proyectando al mundo!
a cambiar esa actitud y a atraer cosas mejores! Ojala mis problemas tan grandes como una orinada en la sala..
por supuesto como buen computin me siento a buscar en internet si a alguien le ha sucedido algo similar y me encuentro con algo que se llama Ansiedad por Separacion.
La perrita cuando yo la dejo sola se pone ansiosa y no quiere que yo la deje! aparentemente esto esta ansiedad se exacerba cuando siente stress de mi parte.
Sera que me conoce tanto o me comprende o es tan habil mi gordita que sabe o por lo menos siente el stress que me provoca mi situacion actual?
justo hoy! hoy que es el gran dia, o bueno, el dia que tanto he esperado... y talvez es para dejarme una enseñanza: Mi estado de animo afecta a la gente que tengo a mi alrededor sin que yo me de cuenta o que lo haga consientemente!
Y por otro lado, sera tan importante estresarme por cosas que realmente no controlo?
gracias a mi gorda me doy cuenta de la imagen que le estoy proyectando al mundo!
a cambiar esa actitud y a atraer cosas mejores! Ojala mis problemas tan grandes como una orinada en la sala..
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